Magic Dust
We feel like roommates
Let’s put a little Magic Dust on that. Nothing went wrong exactly. The two of you simply stopped being a thing you did on purpose.
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The Seven-Day Reset
Seven days, one small thing each. You can do it alone or hand it to your partner.
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What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you?
Your partner has an answer. These twenty-four questions might help you find yours. No email needed to see the result.
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What is my relationship capacity score?
Thirty-two questions about how many tabs you have open, what recovers, and what is left for the two of you. No email needed to see the result.
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The Check-In
Twenty questions about how things actually are right now. Three minutes, nobody watching, no right answers.
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Ten Lies You Were Told About Love
Ten things almost everyone is taught about love, and what is actually true instead.
Worth reading
Writing · 4 min read
What we can learn about love from a divorce lawyer
At first glance, it seems strange that one of the best people to teach us about healthy relationships is a divorce lawyer.
Writing · 8 min read
Your partner should add capacity to your life, not become another thing you have to manage
We talk a lot about what we want in a partner. There is another question we should be asking far more often: does being with this person increase your capacity, or consume it?
Writing · 10 min read
Women aren't giving up on love. They're giving up on the deal.
Women have not suddenly stopped wanting love, companionship, sex, marriage or families. What appears to be changing is their willingness to accept a relationship that asks them to earn like a modern equal and still serve like a traditional wife.
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