Ebook · PDF + EPUB · 12 chapters
The House We Build
A practical guide to building love that lasts
What this is
Most couples are not having a hundred arguments. They are having one, repeatedly, in different clothes — about the washing up, about their mother, about a text message — and every version of it ends in the same place.
This is a book about that argument: where it came from, why it survives every attempt to settle it, and what to do the next time it starts. Twelve chapters, each about a part of the house — what you are built on, how heat moves through it, which doors you have quietly stopped opening.
It is written for two people to read, not for one person to read at the other. Every chapter ends with something small to try together, and none of it needs a weekend away or a new vocabulary.
Inside
What is in it
The chapters follow the parts of the house: what you are built on, how heat moves through it, and which doors have quietly stopped opening. The work at the end of each chapter is for two people to do together.
- Ebook · PDF + EPUB · 12 chapters
- Download it as PDF and EPUB. Yours to keep, on as many of your own devices as you like.
- Read it in the browser as well, with your place kept between sittings.
- Written for: Couples who want to stop repeating the same argument.
- Included with a Library Card, along with everything else on the shelves.
Who it is for
For two people who want to understand the argument they keep repeating, rather than win its latest version. It is written to be read by both of you, with something small to try together at the end of each chapter.
What you can read now instead
This title is not ready, but these are. Both are free, and neither asks you to pretend the unfinished thing has a publication date.