Magic Dust
I want more affection
Let’s put a little Magic Dust on that. Wanting more warmth is not neediness, and asking for it plainly is a skill rather than a mood.
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What does it actually feel like to be loved well?
There is a version of love we talk about constantly because it is easy to photograph. Some of the strongest signs of a good relationship never make it into the picture.
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What is your sexual style?
Fifteen questions about how you actually are, not how adventurous you think you are supposed to be. No email needed to see the result.
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The Seven-Day Reset
Seven days, one small thing each. You can do it alone or hand it to your partner.
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The Check-In
Twenty questions about how things actually are right now. Three minutes, nobody watching, no right answers.
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Writing · 9 min read
You don't need to recreate your parents' marriage
There is something beautiful about growing up watching a marriage that lasts. There is also a danger in allowing a role model to become a blueprint.
Writing · 4 min read
Do you do these 10 things in your marriage?
10 timeless principles for a healthy, happy, and lasting marriage
Writing · 3 min read
The peacock in the relationship: when being seen becomes more important than seeing
A peacock is impossible to ignore. With its brilliant feathers, dramatic display, and commanding presence, it naturally draws attention. It is beautiful, captivating, and impossible to miss.
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