What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you?

With you · 1/24

You've had a brutal day and you're running on fumes. Your partner starts telling you about a problem they're having. What happens?

With you · 2/24

When you're stressed, what is your partner most likely to notice first?

With you · 3/24

Your partner says, “You seem annoyed with me.” You're not actually annoyed with them. What do you do?

With you · 4/24

During an argument, your partner says something that feels completely unfair. What happens next?

With you · 5/24

After a difficult argument, how does reconnection usually happen?

With you · 6/24

You've realised halfway through an argument that your partner is probably right. How easy is it to say so?

With you · 7/24

Your partner has had a difficult week and is less affectionate than usual. What story does your brain tend to create?

With you · 8/24

How much access does your partner have to what's happening inside your head?

With you · 9/24

When you need something emotionally, what are you most likely to do?

With you · 10/24

Your partner says, “I don't need you to solve this. I just need you to listen.” How natural does that feel?

With you · 11/24

Think about an ordinary week. Where does your relationship tend to sit in the hierarchy?

With you · 12/24

How good are you at noticing your own capacity before you exceed it?

With you · 13/24

What happens to your relationship when you're not looking after yourself?

With you · 14/24

When life gets extremely busy, what usually happens to sex and physical intimacy?

With you · 15/24

If you aren't in the mood for sex but your partner wants intimacy, how comfortable are you talking about it?

With you · 16/24

Your partner tells you they miss the version of you who used to be more playful, affectionate or spontaneous. What's your first reaction?

With you · 17/24

When there are lots of things to organise in life, what role do you naturally take?

With you · 18/24

Your partner asks you to take responsibility for something they usually manage. What is your instinctive response?

With you · 19/24

How much independence do you need inside a relationship?

With you · 20/24

Your partner becomes excited about a new hobby, friendship or interest that doesn't involve you. How do you feel?

With you · 21/24

Your partner tells you that something you regularly do makes them feel unimportant. You don't completely understand why. What matters most?

With you · 22/24

Which sentence is most likely to come out of your mouth during conflict?

With you · 23/24

How often do you deliberately check in on the relationship rather than waiting for something to go wrong?

With you · 24/24

Imagine your partner describing you privately to their closest friend. Which sentence would you most like to be true?