Magic Dust
We’re constantly stressed
Let’s put a little Magic Dust on that. When life is loud, the relationship is usually the thing that gets what is left over.
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What is my relationship capacity score?
Thirty-two questions about how many tabs you have open, what recovers, and what is left for the two of you. No email needed to see the result.
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Writing · 8 min read
Your partner should add capacity to your life, not become another thing you have to manage
We talk a lot about what we want in a partner. There is another question we should be asking far more often: does being with this person increase your capacity, or consume it?
Writing · 7 min read
Don't lose yourself in the life you built
There is a particular kind of disappearing that can happen when you become a mother. It does not happen dramatically. It happens in tiny increments.
Writing · 10 min read
Women aren't giving up on love. They're giving up on the deal.
Women have not suddenly stopped wanting love, companionship, sex, marriage or families. What appears to be changing is their willingness to accept a relationship that asks them to earn like a modern equal and still serve like a traditional wife.
Writing · 5 min read
The ebb and flow of relationships: why love has never been 50/50
Few ideas about relationships are as popular, or as misleading, as the belief that healthy partnerships should always be 50/50.
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